Life is all about choices.
Any time things uncomfortable, you can either focus on the negative, or the positive. Any time things get hard, you can either spend all your time digging into the problem and why it happened and who's to blame and so on.
Or, you can focus on finding the solution.
Anytime something worrying happens, you can either focus on your fears and give into the default fight or flight responses. Or, you can choose the intentional path, and think before you act.
No matter the situation, the ultimate outcome will, by and large, depend on the choices that you make. It always comes down to your choices. So, choose wisely (taking a moment to think before you act, helps).
Keep being smart,
Salek
P.S. One of the best ways you can be smart is by being selective about the information you take in. Learn more about this, here > Too Much Information Is Bad for You Here Are 5 Reasons Why